Do you often find yourself thinking about food 24/7? Or going over what you should or shouldn’t eat in your head? Or experiencing intense guilt or shame that leads to the binge-restrict cycle?
If that sounds familiar, you may be stuck in a binge-restrict cycle, which is nothing short of a physical and emotional rollercoaster.
And the worst thing about it? You may feel completely alone and embarrassed to talk about it. And this may prevent you from seeking support and much-needed help to stop binge eating for good.
The good news is, that there are tried and tested strategies on how to stop binging that have worked for hundreds of my clients and helped them foster a healthier relationship with food.
Let’s explore some cornerstone approaches to getting out of the binging cycle, making peace with food and starting to enjoy eating again (yes, it’s possible!).
Am I binge eating?
We are in the era of social media eating trends, influencer "what I eat in a day" plates. Plus countless women around sharing their ongoing dieting struggles. It becomes increasingly challenging to recognise what "normal" eating looks like. It can be difficult to figure out whether occasional overeating is just a part of life or if it’s already becoming disordered eating.
If you are often confused and ask yourself “Am I binge eating?” here are some helpful signs that will help you figure it out:
Signs that you are Binge Eating
- Eating large amounts of food in a short space of time: Binge eating typically involves consuming excessive quantities of food within a shorter timeframe than usual, ranging from minutes to a few hours.
- Feeling out of control: During a binge episode, you may experience a sense of helplessness and lack of control over food. It can feel as though you are unable to stop.
- Rapid eating: Binge eating often means eating large quantities of food without fully savouring or enjoying it. It may feel like an automatic, mindless process.
- Eating beyond the point of fullness: Binge eating may involve continuing to eat even when you feel physically uncomfortable or overly full.
- Secret eating or hiding the evidence: A tendency to eat in secrecy, driven by feelings of shame or embarrassment. You might feel the need to bin or hide food wrappers or containers.
- Experiencing guilt or shame afterwards: Following a binge episode, it is common to experience feelings of guilt, shame, or regret about the episode.
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Why Do I feel obsessed with food?
Learnings from the Minnesota Starvation Study
If you've ever dieted or restricted your food intake, labelled foods as "good" and "bad," or have a history of disordered eating patterns, you may feel completely obsessed with food.
Ever heard of the Minnesota Starvation Study conducted by Ancel Keys during World War II? It’s a cornerstone study that explains the effects of restriction and dieting on the mind and the body. This includes the overwhelming obsession with food.
In the semi-starvation study, participants had 24 weeks of severe calorie restriction with considerable weight and body fat loss. During the study, participants started to become completely obsessed with food, including daydreaming and thinking about food 24/7. And this was likely due to the physiological and psychological effects of food deprivation.
Hormonal changes, increased hunger and reduced satiety, with the constant focus on weight and appearance triggered an obsessive mindset around food.
Although this is quite an old study, the learnings are perhaps even more relevant today. It shows that when the body is deprived of adequate nutrition, it instinctively responds by increasing hunger cues and intensifying food-related thoughts. For some, it also leads to disordered eating, food obsession and most likely overeating and binging.
If you find yourself feeling obsessed with food, take a moment to pause and reflect. What's your relationship with food and your history with dieting or restrictive behaviours? Can you pinpoint when you started thinking about food 24/7?
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What is the Binge-Restrict Cycle?
The binge-restrict cycle is a pattern of behaviour, involving periods of restriction, followed by episodes of overeating or binge eating. Then the feelings of guilt and shame, lead to further food restriction. Let's explore what happens at each stage of the cycle.
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Restricting Food: The binge-restrict cycle often starts with intentional food restriction. Whether due to diet culture, body dissatisfaction, or health concerns, food volume is restricted or certain food groups are cut out. This restriction can trick the body into thinking it's facing a food shortage, triggering physiological and psychological reactions as survival mechanisms.
Often, even mental restriction in the form of diet mentality can propel the cycle of binge eating. - Cravings Increase: As a natural response to deprivation, the body increases hunger cues and cravings, particularly for calorie-dense foods. Mentally, thoughts and fantasies about food can become more frequent, and you may feel obsessed with food, constantly thinking about your next meal or snack.
- Overeating and Binging: As the cravings intensify, the willpower to maintain food restriction and “being good” reduces, which can lead to binge eating episodes. This isn't just about a lack of self-control or willpower, but rather a physiological response to depriving yourself.
- Guilt and Shame: After episodes of overeating or binging, feelings of guilt, shame, and self-loathing often follow. The intensity of emotions and fear of weight gain can lead to promises to “be good” and restrict food again, completing the cycle and also starting it all over again.
Understanding the binge-restrict cycle is a crucial step towards breaking free from it. If you're stuck in this cycle, keep reading and find out what you can do now to stop binging. Also, find out how to seek support from professionals who specialise in eating disorders and disordered eating patterns.
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How to stop binging for good
Stopping binge eating and breaking the binge-restrict cycle can be challenging, especially if you've been dieting or restricting for years (sometimes even decades). However, with the right tools and strategies, it is possible to learn how to stop binging for good.
Here are some key points to get started with that will lead you towards a happier and healthier relationship with food and your body.
1. Recognise your triggers
Ever noticed if you binge at a specific time of the day? Or perhaps it’s after you have that phone call with your Aunt Sally every other week? Or maybe, it’s triggered by constantly seeing the cupcakes in the kitchen your kids made on the weekend?
Identify trigger foods, situations, or environments that lead to binge eating. Avoid them consciously by removing trigger foods or finding alternatives for comfort foods. However, this is only a short-term solution, as eliminating trigger foods long-term will only increase cravings for “forbidden” foods. This can be a form of mental restriction, so become aware of the “good foods” and “bad foods” mentality.
Work on your relationship with food and change ingrained patterns in the meantime. Once you feel confident, slowly reintroduce trigger foods to break associations with binging.
You may also find that you need to put other boundaries in place, such as speaking to Aunt Sally when you are rested and relaxed. Or spring-cleaning your Instagram account. Especially if every second influencer you follow is making you feel like you’re eating habits or exercise routines are below par.
2. Mindful nutrition: regular and balanced meals
While binge eating and food obsession may not be entirely about food, food can certainly be a mediator in the binging process. So it’s key to make sure that you’re nourished well. Create a structured eating routine by having regular, balanced meals and snacks throughout the day.
Skipping meals or going long periods without eating can trigger hunger and food cravings and increase the chance of a binge eating episode. Additionally, restrictive diets, as well as the elimination of entire food groups can lead to increased binge urges.
Aim for balanced meals that include protein, beneficial fats, and fibre. This will help keep you satisfied and stabilise blood sugar levels.
Swap simple carbohydrates with complex carbohydrates where possible. Swap white flour and bread to wholegrain bread, beans and lentils and wholegrains. This will help avoid the spikes and crashes of blood glucose.
3. Learn to manage stress
Managing stress is crucial in overcoming binge-eating habits. Food often becomes a way to cope with stress or find comfort. By effectively managing stress, you can learn how to stop binging and regain control over your relationship with food.
Start with simple acute-stress management techniques like practising breathing exercises. Breathing can quickly reduce cortisol and adrenaline levels, promoting relaxation. Try box breathing, 4-7-8 breathing, or a technique you learned in yoga or meditation.
For chronic stress, focus on self-care and activities that promote relaxation and well-being. Take breaks at work, spend time in nature, indulge in a bath or cosy up with a blanket and a cup of tea. Join a group or engage in hobbies you enjoy. Most importantly, make time for activities that bring you joy and make your heart sing, even if it’s just 10 min a day.
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4. Keep your mindset in check
In order to keep your mindset in check when learning to overcome binge eating and food obsession, it is crucial to challenge diet culture. Question societal messages that promote restrictive eating or dieting behaviours.
This involves surrounding yourself with positive, body-affirming influences that encourage a healthy relationship with food. Find people, community or social media accounts that are supportive and are aligned with your mental health goals.
Additionally, practising self-compassion is key throughout this journey. It is so important (and hard) to be kind to yourself. Recognise that overcoming binge eating is a process that may involve plenty of setbacks and is not linear. It is also important to set realistic goals and understand that recovery takes time.
Also, essential to manage the fear of weight gain or impatience towards weight loss. Recognise, if this is a clear trigger for you, that sabotages your progress, creates negative emotions and intense cravings.
By setting achievable objectives and maintaining a realistic timeframe, it’s much easier to sustain motivation. Also helps you avoid feeling discouraged while learning how to stop binging. If binge eating and disordered eating have been with you for a while, it may take a little while to make peace with food, yet patience is essential.
5. Practice Mindful Eating
Mindful eating is a powerful tool to help overcome food obsession and binge eating, although it may feel challenging to start practising. Mindful eating involves fully focusing on the experience of eating and enjoying each bite. Avoid rushing through your meals and barely tasting them. It requires taking the time to appreciate the appearance, smell, taste, and texture of the food.
Instead of mindlessly consuming food or eating in response to emotional triggers, mindful eating encourages conscious eating. This fosters a healthier and more balanced relationship to food. It discourages the guilt associated with eating certain foods, like chocolate, sweets or processed foods. Working with your hunger and fullness cues also promotes satisfaction with each bite.
Recognise, if there are specific food rules at play. This is guidance that comes from your mind, rather than the body and is a form of dietary restriction. Therefore, an attempt to create control around food leads to loss of control, intense cravings and emotional eating.
When eating for well-being and not for the diet, mindful eating can be instrumental in breaking the binge-restrict cycle. When compulsive eating is behind you, aim to explore intuitive eating as the next step.
6. Learn strategies to bounce back after a binge
The path to overcoming binge eating is rarely linear; relapses happen and are a part of the process. If a relapse occurs, it's important to recognise that you haven't failed. View every “failure” as an opportunity to grow and get really good at recovery skills.
Remember, it's crucial to be kind to yourself during this process and guilt and self-blame are not productive. Instead, reaffirm your commitment to recovery and remind yourself of the progress you've made so far. You're doing so well!
Figure out what helps you bounce back after a binge eating episode and helps you feel mentally and physically better. Does having a balanced nourishing meal help? Perhaps taking a long walk or calling a close friend seems to make the process easier.
Focus on your favourite strategies and techniques to look after and soothe yourself, rather than punish or get back into the binge-restrict cycle. If it helps, compile a list of your go-to strategies and keep it at hand to use after binge eating.
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7. Work with a Binge-Eating Therapist
It’s very possible to stop feeling obsessed with food and learn how to stop binging, but it’s crucial to seek professional help. Your doctor can provide further guidance on available support or private support may be available.
It is often useful to have a combination of support, if available. This can be a mental health professional, such as a psychotherapist and counsellor, alongside a nutritionist, nutritional therapist or dietician can make up a great team that covers the physical and mental bases. It can also help you on your journey to finding a healthier relationship with food.
Choose a binge-eating therapist who specialises in eating disorders and disordered eating patterns. Also the one, which has additional professional training in eating disorders, ensuring you get the best support available.
It's possible to end the binge-restrict cycle
Overcoming binge eating and food obsession is no walk in the park, but it’s very very possible. It’s about developing a healthier relationship with food, managing stress effectively, and engaging in regular self-care activities.
It’s also about seeking professional help from a team of experts who can provide guidance and support throughout this journey because it’s much easier to go with somebody, who knows the way out!
Remember, it’s not about perfection, but progression. Small steps every day to feel better is what truly counts, no matter how small. Overcoming binge eating is possible, and the first step to recovery starts with you!
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